What is a low-income family?

 My wife bought some leeks and prepared to make leek and egg dumplings. She worked for two hours without any help. When it was time to eat, people started to criticize her. Some said it was too salty, others said there weren't enough eggs, or that she didn't use garlic. They kept blaming others and finding fault. After working so hard to make a meal, not only did no one praise her, but they treated her like a rag. Do you think such a family can turn things around?

No matter what hardships one faces outside the home, no matter how much suffering one endures, no matter how great the difficulties encountered, as long as one has a harmonious family where family members tolerate and understand one another, and can communicate effectively, one will not be easily defeated.

However, some people always do the opposite. They are casual and friendly with outsiders but nitpicky and overly critical with their family members. When faced with problems, they don't think about how to overcome them together but instead think about how to shift the blame.

The fundamental reason why a family is unhappy or even declines is not because someone in the family is sick or because they don't have a lot of money, but because the family members don't know how to communicate well, don't understand mutual tolerance, and are always in conflict.

A harmonious family cannot exist without stable emotions. The key to emotional stability is not to never get angry, but to avoid unnecessary anger. Remember: when the father is loving, the mother is calm; when the mother is calm, the children are at peace; when the children are at peace, the family is harmonious; and when the family is harmonious, everything prospers.

A family filled with love and care cannot be defeated. When the husband is gentle and considerate, the wife is emotionally stable, and the children naturally become warm and compliant, how could such a family possibly be unhappy?

Poet Main once said: To build a loving family, one must first have the mindset of loving the family.

The key to loving the family is not to work tirelessly to earn a lot of money, but to be less calculating, avoid confrontation, refrain from arguing over right and wrong, practice more tolerance, avoid getting entangled in trivial matters, take more responsibility for oneself, and blame others less. When a family is united in heart and mind, sharing the same boat and weathering the storm together, such a family can thrive even when deeply mired in adversity!